VFR Issue 2008-1


Dear Readers,

This is our first first newsletter, an attempt to keep contact with all those who have taken our courses and with those who are interested in improving their relationships. We have enlisted you on those merits, please fill free to unsubscribe, if you would not like to be on our mailing list.

The members of the Grihashtha Vision Team just gathered for our annual meeting, where we chose our next year's focus. One item on our agenda, was to develop courses for youth, to help them have great relationships on every level throughout their lives. We welcome
suggestions from you on other programs you would like to see developed or services you would find helpful for your relationships. Please contact us at gvisionteam108@yahoo.com.

 

Our Featured Article

by Partha dasa is a glimpse into the transformational effect of Mutual Respect & Appreciation, one of the GVT's 12 Principals and Values

The Thrill is Gone, Baby!

Recently, in Saranagati, an interesting class was given by Vishaka dasi on verse 18.76 of Bhagavad Gita. “O King, as I repeatedly recall this wondrous and holy dialogue between Krishna and Arjuna, I take pleasure, being thrilled at every moment.”read more >>

 

Relationship Tip

Have a Weekly Family Meeting by Krsnanandini devi dasi

Some things, if done consistently, will promote healthy, spiritual interactions amongst family members. One is having a weekly family meeting. At this meeting, you will hear from all family members, children and adults, about what’s going well and what’s not, choose your weekly family activity (Krsna or other uplifting, educational movies or games, physical activity such as bike-riding or walking, etc.) and reserve this time free of interruption from telephones, computers, televisions and other distractions. Family members will come to treasure these unique, interesting family times.

Initially, you may encounter some resistance, especially from older children. However, gently insist and eventually they will come around. Some family meetings will be funny, some serious but always they should take place and always they should allow everyone to contribute. It may be necessary to clarify a few ground rules: everyone gets a chance to speak if they want, take turns, speak respectfully and listen carefully, full attention has to be given (thus no individual cell or computer usage). All family members should each get the opportunity to select a family activity. Parents can utilize this time to share financial concerns with their children. At early ages, teach them about bills, costs, interest rates, etc., giving in charity to spread Krsna's mission and budgeting. Connect allowances, (if you give them) with chores completed responsibly.

 

Until Next Time...
Please check out our website for more articles on happily married life. When we get married, we continue the work of chanting Hare Krsna and trying to live happily ever after, and usually we could use some help. We're at your service. Questions? gvisionteam108@yahoo.com.

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